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I hate the term cougar but yeah, I went to Cougartown

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It was 2015. The shitshow of my divorce was unraveling, one humiliating, deranged episode at a time. My life was kind of like a season of Fleabag, with knowing glances thrown at the camera and Emmy-worthy eye-rolling on my part.

Before my ex moved out, I got hit (ever so…

Yes! Yes! Yes!

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Remember that table-banging scene in When Harry Met Sally when Meg Ryan built up from a sexy moan to an orgasmic screamfest while every single woman in the diner (especially Rob Reiner’s mom) wanted whatever she was having?

The big O. We all want them, and we all need them…

How to relocate your libido and have great sex after 50

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I remember planning my life out when I was 18. I thought of 28 as ancient. I figured by the time I was 30 I would be married with a kid on the way.

In my 30’s, I planned to reignite my screenwriting career and breakthrough to success in my…

Recovering from a marriage to a narcissist adds an added layer of complexity

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Recovering from a divorce after a 20-year marriage is never an easy feat. Therapist Susan Pease Gadua in Psychology Today likens the undoing of a marriage to, “Trying to disentangle two trees that have grown next to each other for years. …

When you catch him redhanded and you feel left out of the party

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Recently, my friend told me her seven-year relationship was unraveling. Was it the seven-year itch? Well, apparently, there was an itch he wanted to scratch…by himself.

Their sex life went from good to not great to falling off the map. …

If you build it, they will come

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No, we’re not a big MeetUp orgy, schtupping five miles up in the air on a metal sink in the 2x3 foot bathroom of an airplane. It’s nothing that titillating or debaucherous.

What I’m talking about is becoming a 6-percenter.

What is a 6-percenter, you may be wondering?

The stats…

It’s time to get Baby out of the corner

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No one puts Baby in the corner!

This was always one of my favorite lines from Dirty Dancing. In fact, when that movie came out everyone told me I look like Jennifer Gray — my friends jokingly started calling me Baby. No one was gonna put me in a corner!

Maddie Walker

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